The biggest problem with today children is designing their behavior based on the day to day activities the come across. Most of the parents are still on the mayhem to direct and motivate their children towards goodness. Children are impulse driven. They do not understand the real consequences and reap experience through learning in the hard way.
As a old proverb says, "Old habits die hard"
Often grownups see the children as just a small grownups. But their minds are really different. That's why we don't put them in jail for their crimes. They cant be responsible. Their minds are not matured. There are lots of things running in their minds. Actually we adults don't have. Lots of chemical processes, mental processes.
Now what i am coming to say is the timeline of child growth. The timeline is changing so fast than it could be imagined.
Past showed a reasonable child behavior with moderate levels of goodness in children. The mentality of the children of the past was well in manner till date. But the actual fact is the affection and love the children had have with their parents. The fact lies with this is they actually bid with their parents as a matter of fact. They hide their childish desires and went well with their parents for their sake. They eventually carry the genetic memory of all their desires within them.
The next generation of children, carrying the genetic memories started to learn the new world more better than the past generation. So there comes their own desires and the desires from the past. Their past memories comes true as the parents of these generations are broadminded in bringing up their children.
For a example: owning a toy car may be a dream and desire of the 1950's children. But every child now enjoy the privilege of playing with toys ordinarily. Sequentially think of a child dream of having a computer for him/herself that it affects the future of Children as the parents enjoy the privilege of paying bills alone.
Now what here to see in this is that, How will be the future of children will be?
What is the potential of Children with desire, not having in mind the consequences of the world around them?
Lets see...
First of all Children are like computer programs especially a interpreter like thing. Basic life molding range of a child will fall to 5 years from 3 years of age. What is done in this age effects the future characteristics of the children.
A basic functionality of a interpreter is to execute the command line by line. As far as babies are concern, we need to execute them line by line. Children always wanted to do everything in their way. Even from drinking a glass of water to the maximum of their potential.
So its necessary to go in their way subdued not letting them know we are following them in their way.
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